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Change in any sphere can be difficult, being able to face hard and painful truths within a church particularly can be costly.  The bullet points pretty much speak for themselves.  While embracing the past, a healthy church dares to take on new ways of doing things, it admits when things are not working, reflects and learns. Facing the cost of change and growth rather than resisting change and fearing failure is a mark of health that needs to be nurtured at all levels as the church responds to challenges and opportunities.  

“By God’s power, presence, and essence, God is the One whose centre is everywhere and whose circumference is nowhere.”  St. Bonaventure

I think 'sustains' is the key word here, church should never be a monopoly of a few and doesn't make much sense outside of relationships working and supporting one another. Each other's gifts and contributions are what sustains church and it seems that it is from generous and honest relationships that they emerge.  It is not surprising that Robert Warren turns to Ephesians 4 and the body of Christ to illustrate our responsibility to each other and our responsibility to step up and help the church function properly. 

Jumping around the marks we land on #6 Makes room for all which is all about being inclusive rather than exclusive. This is about extreme hospitality and embrace and definitely has close links with having an outward focus. What is generous inclusion really about? How should it shape us as a church?

"I came out of seminary in 1970 thinking that my job was to have an answer for every question. What I've learned since then is that not-knowing and often not even needing to know is a deeper way of knowing and a deeper form of compassion. Maybe that is why Jesus praised faith even more than love; maybe that is why Saint John of the Cross called faith "luminous darkness." Richard Rohr The highlights from his thoughts this week... The goal of the dark night of the soul is to draw the self beyond ego into full transfiguration and union in God.  ( Sunday ) The gift of darkness draws you to know God’s presence beyond what thought, imagination, or sensory feeling can comprehend.  ( Monday ) “The only action left to the soul, ultimately, is to put down its self-importance and cultivate a simple loving attention toward the Beloved.” –Mirabai Starr  ( Tuesday ) God needs to catch us by surprise because our very limited preexisting notions keep us and our understanding of God ...

Ongoing reflections on  Warren, R (2004) The Healthy Churches' Handbook  and its 7 marks of health The third mark of health that Robert Warren looks at is that of seeking to find out what God wants, what he calls a 'discerning the Spirit's leading'. This is all about having a sharpness of focus as a church, a seriousness of purpose carried forward by a sense of vocation.

In any kind of Faith Development model such as Peck's there are important points to keep in mind. Tomlinson highlights them.  Stages are only milestones and there are many variations to be found between and beyond.  We all regress in certain circumstances.  The stages are a description and there is no right of wrong. Moving does not correlate with levels of intelligence. I found myself in a conversation once with someone who told me I was finding my faith and not losing it, I'm glad I had that conversation! An understanding of my personal growth has helped me understand that as s oon as you think you have the answers, new questions and new doors open that's the beauty of faith.

Tomlinson points out that Peck's model of stages is an oversimplification and the reality is to be found  between and betixt! But Tomlinson's reworking is helpful for those trying to make sense of faith as an independent choice outside of previous conformity. Stage 1 - Self-obsessed . This is the normal state of most children, but 20% of adult still demonstrate the same characteristics. Any shift from stage 1 to stage 2 often appears sudden and dramatic and is consistent, but not exclusively, with religious conversion.  Stage 2 - Conformist . This stage is consistent with most believers and churchgoers. There is a sense of tribalism and defensiveness to the form of their religion. This stage is characterised by uncritical acceptance. Concepts of God are like a 'benevolent cop in the sky' that is consistent with the kind of God that they need. A God that ensures good things to happen in accordance with their loyalty.  Stage 3 - Individualist . Ironically stage 3 people o...

I found a screwed up piece of paper in the bottom of my ruck sack with some notes I had made while reading Dave Tomlinson's The Post Evangelical (incidentally a great read for anyone for whom faith has started to less of what it has always been and more of something you are less sure of!) Anyway - Scott Peck a psychologist noticed something .... "Religious people who came to him in pain and trouble frequently left the therapeutic process as  atheists, agnostics or at least sceptic s. On the other hand,  atheists, agnostics and sceptics often left therapy as deeply religious people. Same therapy, same therapist and each of the cases successful in their own terms, and yet with utterly different outcomes from a religious perspective." He identified that both scenarios in one way or another were connected to the different stages of personal development, which Is common to us all and what he observed was a shift reflecting what he saw as a faith  more an expression of conformi...

Ongoing reflections on  Warren, R (2004) The Healthy Churches' Handbook  and its 7 marks of health The second mark of health that Robert Warren looks at is that of having a preoccupation outside of itself, what he calls a 'whole life focus' rather than a 'church life' concern. This is all about being a church that is centrifugal and missional in its identity - outward in its expression of love to its community. A church with an outward-looking focus  is all about being church that in all things shares the pain and joy of community. Not only being concerned with 'who' is your neighbour but 'how' is your neighbour. (Hat tip to liveability :o)) This means being conversant and in relationship with our locality and in many ways being the kind of church that is known and would be missed if it wasn't there.  The danger being of course that preoccupation with self is never far away!

Richard Rohr articulating the danger of creating God in our image! " It takes a long time for us to allow God to be who God really is. Our natural egocentricity wants to make God into who we want or need God to be.....  The First Commandment says that we’re not supposed to make any images of God or to worship them. At first glance, we may think this deals only with handmade likenesses of God. But it mostly refers to images of God that we hold in our heads. God created human beings in God’s own image, and we’ve returned the compliment, so to speak, creating God in our image."  Simplicity: The Freedom of Letting Go , pp. 21-22,

I was struck with Richard Rohr's thoughts yesterday about the place and responsibility of  relationship restoration and what it is  for  human beings move ahead with dignity. "Only mutual apology, healing, and forgiveness offer a sustainable future for humanity. Otherwise, we are controlled by the past, individually and corporately. We all need to apologize, and we all need to forgive or this human project will surely self-destruct.  No wonder that almost two-thirds of Jesus’ teaching is directly or indirectly about forgiveness. Otherwise, history winds down into the taking of sides, deep bitterness, and remembered hurts..."

Ongoing reflections on  Warren, R (2004) The Healthy Churches' Handbook  and its 7 marks of health... The first mark of health to consider is what it is to be energised by faith. While it s eems a little obvious on a first read through, the more I thought of it, the more challenging it became.  Robert Warren sees being energised by faith to be foundational for healthy churches ." At the heart of these churches and their members is a reality about their awareness of the presence, goodness and love of God. Faith is the fuel on which these churches run."   Warren, R (2004) The Healthy Churches' Handbook. Church House Publishing The recognition is that a strong sense of church identity stems from 'knowing' the reality of God's love, experiencing it through a worship shaped by Christlike living. This is all about a motivation that embodies the Great Commandment, love for God and neighbour.  The danger comes from when that motivation is knocked, and a church fin...

Here at suttonsa the leadership team have been considering important questions that surround what constitutes being a healthy church. Robert Warren's book 'The Healthy Church Handbook' has been a useful companion, while not purporting to having all the answers his research has presented a useful framework for discussion.  I first came across his material while teaching at William Booth College and found it a refreshing, alternative means of theologically reflecting on the life of the church, without being swamped by success by measurement, strategy by 'key performance indicators' and other 'borrowed' idioms that are as easily applied to selling more baked beans than your competitors at a supermarket! Asking what would you expect to find in a healthy church was a good starting point, and interesting to find some common ground with Warren's material, most of what we brainstormed could be identified. Consequently working through the '7 Mark's' h...

It always seems a shame when we fall into the trap of looking for the next discipleship model and programme, striving rather than relaxing with becoming who we are intended to be.  It has been many years since I stumbled upon  Renovaré  and its balanced vision and practical approach to discipleship, I guess I was looking for the next model and programme when I found it! But in reality it has become a gateway and a journey companion in exploring the purposes of God for me. It has been good to recently be reminded of the value's that I found attractive and helpful. LIFE WITH GOD The aim of God in history is the creation of an all-inclusive community of loving persons with God himself at the centre as its prime Sustainer and most glorious Inhabitant THE AVAILABILITY OF GOD'S KINGDOM We can experience genuine, substantive life in God's Kingdom through Jesus Christ, beginning now and continuing through all eternity THE MEANS OF GRACE Amongst the variety of ways God has g...

" Grace is not something God gives; grace is who God  is.  Grace is God’s official job description.  Grace is what God does to keep all things that God has created in love alive—forever. "

"Receiving is an art.  It means allowing the other to become part of our lives.  It means daring to become dependent on the other.  It asks for the inner freedom to say:  "Without you I wouldn't be who I am."   Receiving with the heart is therefore a gesture of humility and love.  So many people have been deeply hurt because their gifts were not well received.  Let us be good receivers." Nouwen got me thinking today. How often do we as church think we are doing our community a favour by being there? In what ways can we receive form our communities, allowing our communities to become part of our lives? I wonder how we should receive and allow that receiving to embody humility and love? Just a thought!

"Life, when lived fully, tends to tool and retool us until we eventually discover a mercy that fills all the gaps necessary for our very survival and sanity. Without grace, everything human declines and devolves into smallness, hurt, and blame."

It has been sometime since I have thought about 'lost themes of mission' but today's daily dose of Nouwen got me thinking about what constitutes developing 'true community'.  "There are many forms of poverty:  economic poverty, physical poverty, emotional poverty, mental poverty, and spiritual poverty.  As long as we relate primarily to each other's wealth, health, stability, intelligence, and soul strength, we cannot develop true community.  Community is not a talent show in which we dazzle the world with our combined gifts.  Community is the place where our poverty is acknowledged and accepted, not as something we have to learn to cope with as best as we can but as a true source of new life. Living community in whatever form - family, parish, twelve-step program, or intentional community - challenges us to come together at the place of our poverty,  believing that there we can reveal our richness." Nouwen's words made me think how easy it is for ...

"Personal awareness of self before a loving God is also important because it helps self confidence to grow and be more resistant to the assaults of failure or rebuff. Thus, it allows our character to develop and it enables the presence of God with in us to be felt in a good way by others. It is not that we forget or deny our faults; rather, we are better able to put them into perspective instead of being crushed by them."25 Wicks's then outlines a helpful checklist that he calls , ' p rinciples of self-respect and clarity':  1. When I have made a mistake or feel anxious, I need to separate what I have done from who I am.  2. When I feel badly about myself as a person, I must see if I am embracing an irrational belief about myself. I need to take a distressful  feeling as an opportunity to uncover style of thinking and believing that undermines my self-respect or desire to understand and correct my behaviour. ... 76  Contd...

Some amazing conversations sat drinking coffee this weekend @suttonsachurch, one of which that rumbled on for two days! with a break in between mind! One in particular centred on some of the negative impressions of Christianity, not least the appearance of judgementalism that seems to be the experience of many. This particular woman made pertinent point after pertinent point as to her observations, really all could offer was an apology!  Nouwen's daily email had a lesson for us all today ... "Only when we fully claim that God loves us in an unconditional way and look at "those other persons" as equally loved can we begin to discover that the great variety in being human is an expression of the immense richness of God's heart.  Then the need to prejudge people can gradually disappear."

Every now and then I read one of those books that I worry I might forget bits that made an impression upon me. These books represent more than mere opinion, clever talk they represents something that speaks deep within. Robert Wick's 'Touching the holy : ordinariness, self-esteem, and friendship' is one such book. I want to capture some of its comfort and challenge so will park some quotes and thoughts here over the next couple of weeks... Here are two quotes to set the scene. Due to our lack of complete trust in God's revelation that we are made in the divine image and likeness, most of us get caught up in trying to be extra ordinary. We become insecure and are tempted to rest our sense of self on something less than God's love for us. As a result we waste our energy worrying about whether we are liked, respected, effective, or as good as other people. 15 If only we would properly attend to God's gifts to us and in us! Then self awareness and healthy se...

We have just started a new series @suttonsachurch looking at prayer. Read this on the Jesuit Prayer app this morning and thought it worth keeping and sharing. "Life-giving God, help me find you in everything I say and do this day. Help my outreach to others embody your strength, your hope, your love. May I in some small way be your hands, your heart, your voice. May I always walk in your ways and show your face to all I meet. Amen!"

Richard Rohr on holistic and heartfelt spirituality... "That’s the way that religion is supposed  to know , and it’s a kind of knowing that really changes people. It rearranges one’s worldview at a level that actually cannot be contradicted by mere words or passing ideas. Instead of undergoing this wonderful transformation, most Western religion has been simply transmitting information, and then we argue about it. What a waste of time. There is nothing that is  not  spiritual for those who have learned how to see." I think this connected with me, in that the more I have been able to read and study, the more accessible peoples opinions are through social media, the more I have tired of peddling opinion that positions itself, mine included! As I learned last year at the international college for officers 'solo Dios basta' God is sufficient!

Richard Rohr concludes his insights to faith development. Here's his edited highlights...  Stage Four: My deeper intuitions and felt knowledge i n my body are who I am.  ( Sunday ) Stage Five: My shadow self is who I am.  ( Monday ) Stage Six: I am empty and powerless.  ( Tuesday ) Stage Seven: I am much more than who I thought I  was.  ( Wednesday )   Stage Eight: “I and the Father are one” (John  10:30 ).  ( Thursday ) Stage Nine: I am who I am.  ( Friday )

Rohr is looking at faith development, here are his highlights for this week. So many of our problems can be resolved if we understand that people are at different levels.   ( Sunday ) Growth is going somewhere, and the trajectory is toward union: union with God, with the self (of mind, heart, and body), with others, and with the cosmos.  ( Monday ) Stage One: My body and my self-image are who I am.  ( Tuesday ) Stage Two: My external behavior is who I am.   ( Wednesday ) Stage Three: My thoughts and feelings are who I am.   ( Thursday )   Without   great love   (and I mean   great   love) and   great suffering , where there is a major defeat, major humiliation, major shock to the ego self, very few people move to Stage Four.   ( Friday )  

Can't help but think that this week has been an interesting one of reflection, partly because of BBC 4’s programme 'God's Cadets', partly personally because of Richard Rohr's use of 'sic et non' or 'yes... an d' and in particular the challenge that comes with his insight that  “and” is willing to wait for insight and integration. It stops you short when thinking about promoting your own opinion over that of others. Programme aside which IMHO seemed a little hastily put together, or at least edited in such a way that didn't capture the life of the college, the maelstrom of personal criticism on social media from internal voices was astounding. Seemingly one thing hasn't changed, everyone knows how to run the college better than it is currently!  I stumbled upon this quote this week  “Today our prime educational objective must be to form men-and-women-for-others; . . . men and women who cannot even conceive of love of God which does not...

The Richard Rohr daily email meditations have just got a whole lot better in my opinion. Not just words but a whole rhythm, it culminates with a Saturday résumé which is really helpful. Here's today's. Remember :  Yes, And As Franciscans, we were told that our job was to somehow make the Word of God accessible to the ordinary person, so that it would bring them to life. ( Sunday ) If Jesus can listen and ask questions . . . who are we to think we are better than him?  ( Monday ) The systematic asking of questions opened up  wonder  and encouraged spiritual curiosity . . . .  ( Tuesday ) Non-dual people use knowledge for the transformation of persons and structures, but most especially to change themselves and to see reality with a new eye and heart.  ( Wednesday ) Sacred texts always maximize your possibilities for life and love, which is why we call them sacred.  ( Thursday ) My methodology is very simple; I will try to interpret Script...

Here are a couple of quotes that have been bouncing around my head, one for 14 years, the other for 14 minutes since I read it in my daily dose of Nouwen. “In the post-Christian era, the medium is the message, and the medium of evangelism is regarded with extreme distaste by the surrounding culture….evangelism easily becomes the marketing ploy for Christianity akin to selling encyclopaedias. Various techniques are used in a highly manipulative agenda designed to get prospective customers to “sign up”. This is about as far away from the story of Jesus of Nazareth as it is possible to get.” [Riddell, M. (1998) Threshold of the Future: Reforming the Church in the Post-Christian West. SPCK] "The Church as the people of God can truly embody the living Christ among us only when the poor remain its most treasured part.  Care for the poor, therefore, is much more than Christian charity.  It is the essence of being the body of Christ."  Henri Nouwen There's ins...